THRIVING ADJACENT

Our goal is to get you to the other side of this and on your terms.

There is a space between when shit goes down, when you are still in shock and processing, and when you have the presence of mind to make the next steps…be that hire an attorney and/or make arrangements. This is the space where we see the biggest need for support. This is when people make the most financial mistakes and hire professionals that are both expensive and mediocre. Before you do that, let’s get you a glass of water and take a moment to assess the situation. You cannot make decisions when you are in fight or flight or overwhelmed with brain fog. Give us that time help you aclimate to where you are and then we can help steer you in the right direction, with the right help, without all the excess spending of time, money and energy.

Unlike a therapist, we want you to graduate out of this. And you will. We will help you get set up to manage this on your own and will be here after that as needed. But the goal is to get you to where you need to be...and you won't need me once you are there. We often work frequently with my clients in the beginning and as the weeks go by, they need me less and less. I am always available for additional calls or to support you at legal meetings and beyond.

Who is the “we” you keep mentioning?

Thriving Adjacent is a “we” organization. It includes coaches with specific backgrounds for your needs, professional counselors, dear friends, and new members of this community. Some lead and manage the support groups here while others are involved as Bravery Buddies & Mentors. Some are not ready for their names to be public though I wish I could blast them all over this website because they deserve the credit. They are warriors and heroes. And we all look forward to connecting you.

FAQs

  • Maybe. Maybe not. Let's have a quick, confidential chat and see where you are. Everyone involved with this community really believes "helping others heal is healing in itself'. This is not about the price tag. It's that we already survived the most extreme circumstances and trauma. We have empathy for what you are going through and want to help. And the more we help you, the more we heal ourselves. If I cannot personally help you, I would honored to connect you to someone in this network who could help. Connections in healing, at least in this community, are free of charge. Wouldn't it be nice if the whole world operated that way?

  • The best thing you can do is just get in touch. Schedule a free call or shoot a quick email.

    I’ve often been asked if someone could connect me to another friend who is going through something hard and would I be willing to talk to them. The answer is of course yes! But the majority of the time, those people never call. I would get their number and follow up with them directly because I know the last thing they want to do is talk to someone new. Or consider spending more money on another therapy option.

    Send us a brief email or at nudge@thrivingadjacent.com or schedule a complimentary inquiry call. From there, I will personally walk you through the basics and with no expectations to continue on with us. Taking the first step is the hardest, but this community is here to make it as smooth and supportive as possible.

  • One-on-one coaching is very different than group support. Support groups are small, private communities where you connect with others who are navigating similar experiences. It's a shared space to learn, grow, and lean on each other. You can get personal answers and because it is a community, you will have acces to information that I, Ruby, would have to research to find out. And that is a huge benefit.

    One-on-one coaching, on the other hand, is all about you. It’s what oyou need right then and there. There is a space between when it all goes down and when you hire your lawyer. That is the place wher I so desperately wish I had someone to help me, to hold my had and get me through to the next day.